What is your opinion on the belief that one can change their life by changing their thoughts and having a positive mindset?
10.06.2025 07:13
Dr. Vikas who has Drishti institute for civil services said that since his parents were professors of Hindi ; so he did masters in Hindi and finally ended up as a director of that institute . He said that he had zero control over his destiny.
“yes, through CBT ( cognitive behaviour therapy ) one can change ones negative thoughts to positive ones but the change doesn’t last and relapse or old patterns of thinking come back”
Allport , in his trait theory , explained the concept of PROPRIUM . He explained in his theory of personality traits that first the hunter hunts for food but later on hunting becomes his habit or trait or thought process. Now he can’t give up hunting. So habits or thoughts don’t change.
“”kabir je jumped straight from unfulfilled basic physiological needs to self actualisation making mockery of MASLOW ‘s need hierarchy theory of motivation “”
so dr Vikas is conveying that we are creatures of destiny.
we all have a baseline of happiness. Those who win a billion dollars 💵 lottery; there happiness level comes down to baseline level within 15 days or a little more time. Why ?
On social media the whole world of influencers are shouting at the top of their voice that u can manifest anything by changing ur thoughts.
why the universe will conspire to unite you both with all it’s might ?
Thoughts And habits die hard.
Without tasting few prettiest ; comely, enticing, buxom, bewitching, females in bed, one can’t know that beneath the smoothest skin is just stinking flesh, bones and elephantine dirt.
ok dear we will be positive but first let me run my auto as I need to pay it’s rent !
But there were some greater souls than Buddha like Kabir who was perhaps an illegitimate child born of Muslim parents and brought up by Hindu family ( not too sure ). Such souls are already evolved at the time of birth because of previous birth spiritual efforts and experiences.
It’s not possible to be positive without having a clean 🧼 drinking water 🚰 or food 🥘.
And as far as I m concerned , I have written in my profile that I believe in one word “”destiny.”
people like Kabir are beyond time and space and such people are incomparable and perfect.
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In his unbelievable lines he said
when poverty comes at the door 🚪, love💕 flies out of the window.
our pineal gland is responsible for secretion of MELETONIN and if it gets secreted ; the bliss is thousand times more than orgasm ; but it doesn’t mean prayer 🙏 can’t open ur third eye or stimulate your pineal gland !
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“”Please Don’t get fixated on the concept of Yoga and kundalini etc””
if you and me don’t get water for 3 days, all positivity will fly away like a unfaithful 🦅 bird.
it means , oh my mother; I fell in love with such a female who turned out to be unfaithful and made such a flight and never returned to me””
Without tasting or acquiring money, fame , a beautiful woman ‘s body ; Kabir knew there is not much difference between two state of affairs.
since our upbringing or socialisation results in such a personality make up that once established , it’s beyond change( few exceptions out of millions )
Only after having a 7 course meal in a 7 star hotel; one realises that a road side restaurant ( dhaba ) was better( not always )
please , those who are decently well read, don’t eat the bait thrown at u by social media.
Don’t think that if the book 📖 “” secret is Titanically successful; it’s ultimate truth””
Habits or what we call as thoughts are almost impossible to change ( only 1 to2 percent people can do this and that too if the mentor is spiritual and has supernatural, otherworldly powers to convince )
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He further says somewhere that had Ellon Musk been in Ethiopia 🇪🇹 etc where there is no such system of libertarianism; he would never have been Ellon musk .
Whatever I m writing ✍️, it relates to Maslow ‘s need hierarchy theory as well which I presume the readers know. Still a crisp description. According to him without fulfilling basic needs one cannot move to higher level need of Aesthetics and self actualisation.
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shakespear, Bernard shaw, Bertrand Russel all were of the opinion that once we have certain kind of mind set , then it’s difficult to give up the cardinal traits of personality.
god is just waiting for ur only single tear and you will or can become master of this world.
Because ur love is pure, ur heart and soul is pure and ur final intentions are extremely pious.
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But through “” prayer 🙏 “ one can become 👑 king and it’s my personal experience.
But people here are missing the spiritual aspect.
just a tear of gratitude 🙏 or love for almighty is enough to bring unthinkable, rare positive changes in ur life .
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”” Don’t become gullible and please go for critical thinking when you are bombarded by “ manifestation through positive thinking “”
it means our habits die hard even if you cut urself.
once infidelity, always infidelity “
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Can a cunning, shrewd and stingy fellow invoke supernatural, paranormal or transcendental powers ?
Bulleh shaw ; a great fakir tried to enlighten us through his unmatched poetry that habits or thoughts are difficult to change.
Sit at home and pray and u will get everything in life”
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So Buddha realised this as he had the best of everything and after enjoying all, it became too easy for him to leave all of it.
only after sitting behind the wheels of a luxurious 🚘 car , one realises that an auto’s journey is more enjoyable as u interact with strangers and many times encounter some philosopher or a noble soul which is not possible in a lonely car.
But for an ordinary poor man it’s impossible not to think about money, females etc etc etc
But yes please read it carefully .
so this is fatalist philosophy and i do believe in it !
kabir je was a poor weaver and had a very ordinary looking wife but still knew that there is no difference between his wife and today’s miss world.
So it’s difficult for a poor person to think positive or change his thoughts 💭or go for aesthetics and self actualisation.
4 billion people don’t have a penny in their pockets and at least 10000 self proclaimed philosophers on social media are talking about manifestation of money or anything is possible in few days. ( bastards playing with emotions of innocent penniless humans )
No !
can we change our lives through positive thoughts and positive mindset ?
””” Mai ne mai main ik shikra yaar banaya ; Ik udari aisee maree fir watni na aaya “””
By constantly feeding ur subconscious mind through positive self talk, through gratitude ; by writing everyday positive things; our subconscious mind can do miracles.
only a full purse 👛 makes the mouth 👄 speak
“” adtan na jandian , je Katia bhorian bhorian “
But please ignore these fake babas on u tube and don’t get unnecessarily mesmerised by their great “”articulation skills”. They become billionaires and you stupids ( innocent ) lose 10000 rupees and ur parents starve and die due to lack of decent medical treatment.
yes it’s true “ agar aap kisee ko shidat se chaho to saree kayanat, apko us se milane mai lag jatee hai “”Shahrukh Khan got the credit and writer got ..?
“”one can change nothing without the will of god””
yes one should be a realist but not a moronic optimist.
“””So in a nutshell ; since it’s difficult to change one’s mindset from negative to positive; don’t expect your life will change”””
Smearing urself with ashes like aghori sadhu’s or tantrics or yogis - is not the right way to become positive and experiences abundance and manifest all that u people unnecessarily crave for !
“””””So Shakespeare said that never trust him that hath once broken faith””””